Find the perfect gift for your significant other based on how long you’ve dated!
Valentine’s Day can be a tricky holiday... how do you know what is an appropriate gift for your significant other? If you’ve only been dating a couple weeks, you don’t necessarily want to give your man something that suggests you’re already planning the wedding. And if you’ve been dating a couple years, you certainly can’t expect a box of chocolates from the gas station around the corner to be sufficient (that goes for both men and women gift givers!). Don’t stress! Sheryl Kurland, a relationship expert who has been featured on The Dr. Laura Show, Sally Jessy Raphael's show, Leeza Gibbons' show and many more, gives DivaVillage.com readers a guide to the perfect gift for your significant other – based on how long you’ve dated. So you no longer have to stress over having another unhappy Valentine’s Days. (Hint: You may want to email this page to your man as well!)
Now that you’re well equipped with the knowledge you need, start shopping for the perfect gift!
What About If You’re Single And In Love With An Unsuspecting Man?
The question remains, should you, or shouldn’t you give him a gift to display how you feel? Sheryl says, do not give the guy a gift because it will create an awkward situation and it may back-fire by pushing him away, whether or not he’s interested. A better approach would be to ask him out to lunch or invite him to meet you for a drink after work. At that outing, you can steer the conversation to let the guy know you’d really enjoy going out with him sometime. It’s a less direct approach and still gets the message across! Don’t fret if you’re single this Valentine’s Day, you’re certainly no less of a woman – click here to feel better about being single!
Written by: Sheryl Kurland; Sheryl is an award-winning author and speaker who helps others develop strong, healthy relationships, find romance and create lasting bonds, based on her research with real-life relationship "pros." Her book, "Everlasting Matrimony: Pearls of Wisdom from Couples Married 50 Years or More", is based on more than 4,000 years of marriage insight from couples across the country. Sheryl has been featured on The Dr. Laura Show, Sally Jessy Raphael's show, Leeza Gibbons' show and many more.
Article Written By: Amy Taylor; Amy is a graduate of FIDM in Los Angeles, CA and enjoys writing and creating pages for Divavillage.com.