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Signs That Your Relationship Is Over
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SIGNS THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS OVER

Are You Sensing The End Is Near? Here Are Signs That Your Relationship Is Over!

When you are in a relationship, you are constantly evaluating it, consciously or otherwise. Are your feelings of stagnation and worry the normal characteristics of an ongoing relationship, or do they indicate something more serious, like a need to separate ways?

Only you can know if you would be better off alone. Just the fact that you are reading this article is a fairly big sign that you may be wanting out of your current relationship. But read through the many indications that it is over, and by the end of the page you will probably have a better idea (and a deeper gut feeling) whether or not to call it quits.

Remember, relationships take work, sacrifice and commitment, and these are not always fun things to experience. But conversely, many people stay in dead or dying relationships because it is easier and more convenient that being alone, which is hard and can be terrifying. However, as a dinner of gas station hot dogs shows, just because something is easier and more convenient does not mean it is the best choice or good for you. The last thing you want to do is to wake up in a few years and realize you should have dumped his sorry ass ages ago.

SIGNS THAT IT’S OVER

Is it over? Here are some signs. Alone they may mean nothing (plenty of men don’t get along with their in-laws), but added together can be an unavoidable sign that your relationship needs to end.

Sign That It’s Over: You rarely ever touch feet anymore. Humans only touch feet with people they are very, very close with. People in new relationships are constantly playing footsie and such. If you and your man are no longer cuddling feet, it is a huge sign that you are withdrawing from each other emotionally. Pay attention to your tootsies.

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Sign That It’s Over: He starts staying out in the evenings if you live together, or hanging out with you less if you don’t. This is true even if he has a valid and perfectly logical reason, like basketball with the boys, more hours at the office, or sudden friends from out of town. If he likes you, he will want to hang out with you. If he doesn’t want to spend at least some of his free time with you, there is a big problem.

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Sign That It’s Over: Feelings of disgust and contempt are signs that a relationship is doomed. Watch for small gestures and facial expressions that he makes, and listen to his tone of voice when he speaks to you. Is he talking down?

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Sign That It’s Over: This goes both ways- does he disgust you? Do you recoil at his touch, or at the thought of his caresses? Bad sign.

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Sign That It’s Over: You think about breaking up and feel hopeful. You fantasize about living alone and being free.

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Sign That It’s Over: You have less physical contact, or it stops completely.

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Sign That It’s Over: He pays you less attention out in public, bordering on ignoring you at social events. However, he flirts with other women like mad, often in front of you. When you confront him, he accuses you of being insecure. You begin to wonder if you are.

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Sign That It’s Over: Almost all of your friends dislike him, as does your family.

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Sign That It’s Over: He isn’t so thrilled about them either.

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Sign That It’s Over: Pay attention to small details. Flowers stop, there are no little love notes, fewer special gestures, less kind words and no phone calls to check in. It’s the small things that count.

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Sign That It’s Over: Don’t miss big symbols, either. He forgets your birthday, doesn’t buy you anything at all for Christmas, or misses a dinner with your mom that he knows is important. He is putting distance between you and no longer wants to create memories with you.

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Sign That It’s Over: You are very interested in another guy.

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Sign That It’s Over: He does not seem to want to make any future plans, from a vacation next summer to a weekend holiday away. He is planning his escape.

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Sign That It’s Over: There is way too much screaming going on.

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Sign That It’s Over: Your arguments are getting worse, and nothing ever seems to get solved.

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Sign That It’s Over: The cops are involved.

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Sign That It’s Over: Do you feel loved, accepted and appreciated? If not, is this the way you really want to live? You deserve better from your relationship.

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Sign That It’s Over: You find yourself relieved when you part company with him, instead of excited when he walks through the door. In fact, when he shows up- you get stressed.

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Sign That It’s Over: He becomes very defensive over any negative accusations, from not taking out the trash to questions over his whereabouts the previous evening. He gets more upset than he should and often turns the blame towards you.

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Sign That It’s Over: He says things like, “I don’t deserve you” and “I am holding you back.” He is setting you up for a split.

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Sign That It’s Over: You have the overwhelming feeling that he is cheating on you, even if you can’t logically explain it. Sometimes our hearts know things that our brains don’t want to contemplate.

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Sign That It’s Over: You have caught him in a lie, or in multiple lies. You don’t need that kind of deceit in your relationship, or your life.

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Sign That It’s Over: There is more escaping going on in your relationship, by either of you, in the form of alcohol, drugs, movies, shopping, video games, chocolate, etc.

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Sign That It’s Over: You have an overwhelming feeling of dread for the future.

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Sign That It’s Over: He verbally, emotionally, sexually, or physically abuses you. Call 1 (888) 7HELPLINE right now. You are NOT alone.

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Sign That It’s Over: You are just done. Plain and simple, you are done. You need no other reason; it is time to start your new life.

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Shilo Urban is a freelance writer who has just relocated to Los Angeles after her previous homes of Seattle, New Zealand, Paris, Maine, and Austin. She is an active member of the West Coast electronic music community and lives to promote the art that she loves and the people who create it.



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